Household Staffing

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Family Assistant

Job Title: Family Assistant

Location: Fairfield County, CT | New York City | Miami

Schedule: Full-Time, 5 Days/Week (with flexibility for occasional weekends and travel)

Compensation: $40–$50/hour, commensurate with experience

Benefits: 15 PTO Days (10 Vacation, 5 Sick), Holidays per FTV Capital Schedule, Monthly Insurance Reimbursement

Overview:

An active and creative family with residences in Connecticut, New York City, and Miami is seeking an experienced and highly organized Family Assistant to join their household team. The family includes a husband, an interior designer wife, two grown children, two friendly dogs, and a live-in housekeeper. The primary residence is a newly built home on a farm in Connecticut, with additional properties requiring regular oversight and coordination.

Key Responsibilities:

Property & Staff Management

  • Oversee daily operations at CT residences (Farm and Lake), coordinating with caretaker, housekeepers, gardeners, and various vendors.

  • Maintain NYC and Miami apartments: stock fridges pre-arrival, manage local staff, and ensure cleanliness and organization.

  • Supervise upkeep of garden, orchard, and greenhouse – hands-on knowledge preferred.

  • Assist with recruiting, onboarding, and scheduling new household staff as needed.

  • Maintain and update household manuals and systems via Google Docs.

  • Ensure homes are stocked with supplies, including “lightbulb management” and essentials.

  • Oversee any ongoing construction or renovation projects; prior experience in construction management is a plus.

Administrative & Personal Support

  • Manage the wife’s personal calendar and assist with scheduling in coordination with the husband’s assistant.

  • Handle incoming/outgoing mail, packages, and returns.

  • Source and coordinate deliveries of furniture, design items, and other goods.

  • Execute travel arrangements (airfare, car service, hotels, dining).

  • Respond to invitations, organize paperwork and digital files, and help manage bills.

  • Provide personal shopping, sourcing, and gift-buying assistance.

  • Assist with wardrobe maintenance, fashion purchasing, closet organization, and packing for travel.

Event & Lifestyle Coordination

  • Plan and execute dinner parties and social gatherings.

  • Coordinate event staffing in NYC and Miami as needed.

  • Maintain and manage the family's social calendar; research and recommend new restaurants, shows, and cultural activities.

  • Collaborate with the housekeeper or chef to plan healthy, family-friendly meals.

Errands & Pet Care

  • Run errands such as grocery shopping, returns, and item sourcing.

  • Assist with dog care: vet appointments, grooming, and general companionship.

Qualifications:

  • 3+ years of relevant experience in a similar Personal Assistant or Estate Manager role.

  • Strong organizational skills with the ability to multitask and prioritize effectively.

  • Tech-savvy: proficient in Microsoft Office (Outlook, Word, Excel, PowerPoint), Google Docs, Dropbox; comfortable using both PC and Mac.

  • Strong written and verbal communication skills; must be capable of professional, discreet correspondence.

  • Resourceful, proactive, and detail-oriented with excellent common sense and problem-solving ability.

  • Able to work independently as well as collaboratively in a fast-paced, dynamic household.

  • A warm, professional demeanor with a love for dogs is essential!


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